Help for your mental health
Does therapy feel too indulgent – or maybe too expensive? Here's how to get assistance when you're feeling under pressure.
If you need help but don't think it's worth seeing a therapist, there are helplines you can try.
"If a person feels they need treatment, usually that signals some type of crisis," said Nina Riccardi, a therapist for Cathedral Counseling Center in Chicago. "If they're feeling at risk of self-injury they should contact their nearest emergency room immediately. But if their crisis is not something on that scale, there are several options to consider."
"You should ask about the Employee Assistance Program, or EAP," she said. "There is most likely a hotline available, and often they'll offer a six-session opportunity to talk about where you are and then you're referred to someone else after those six sessions. These are all with trained clinicians."
If you'd rather not speak to someone, there's always the Internet.
"There are several resources online that could be helpful for people who can't pay for hours of therapy," said integrative psychology expert Matthew B. James. "YouTube has recently been flooded with self-help videos. But it's really important to make sure the person you're watching is credentialed. Look for credibility. Do they have a graduate-level degree? 20-plus years in the field? From that perspective you can get amazing content."
And while many think of the YMCA as a place to work out or swim, it could also be a source for mental health assistance.
"Each community has different resources available, and we act as a conduit to put it all together for people," said Chris Coker, president and CEO of the Boulder Valley YMCA in Colorado.
Coker said services vary at each YMCA based on the needs of the community, but that the staff should direct you to the closest facility that can help. Check http://www.YMCA.net for one in your neighborhood.
Here are some other tips to find the help you need.
Your local church
"In my experience a church will welcome those in need, regardless of whether you are a member of the congregation," James said.
The National Alliance of Mental Illness
"They provide a database of low-cost or no-cost treatment options and groups," Riccardi said. Contact: 312-563-0445 or http://www.nami.org.
Grief support groups at Northwestern Memorial Hospital
"This can be helpful for those who have suffered a loss," Riccardi said. "There is a pre-screening required." Contact 312-926-4600 or find more resources at http://www.nmh.org/nm/health-references-dying-death-bereavement.
"Any teacher or author that you are drawn to may have a blog or a website with helpful information," James said. He also recommended the Learning Annex (www.learningannex.com), where classes on a variety of topics start at 99 cents.
For more urgent crises, Riccardi suggested the following hotlines: