The dead are not buried in the ground here. The ground is too rocky, so the coffins are placed in white marble crypts above ground. Our grandfather, Papou Ianni, died when he was 95. Yia Yia Angela was there next to him, having lived to her mid-80s until her death in 1968.
I made the sign of the cross and said a prayer for them. The marble was warm.
For some reason, the men in our family have children late in life. I never met my grandfather. And my sons never met theirs.
Kostas recalled how he and his sister Sophie shared our grandfather's last moments. "We were alone with him when he died," he said. "I was, what, 9 years old?"
And as he said it, I considered the timeline, the length of the family, how just a few generations can reach back into the ages, to the time of the Turks and before.
Then we went up the mountain to the monastery. We lit a candle in the church of St. Nicholas, where an icon of Christ had been placed in 1902, donated by Riziotes who'd gone to Chicago. And we found the names of our clan among the donors, Karkazis and Pagonis and Kringas, names that don't mean a thing to you, but each had a story around our dinner tables on the South Side when we were children.
They were old even in the stories, and dead long before I was born, and I thought of them as dour grandfathers in blue suits and starched collars, not young immigrants donating the icon from a Chicago of sooty skies and the smell of blood and wool in the air from the stockyards, the young Riziotes desperate to reach back home across the sea.
Cousin George's cellphone rang, and we went outside to the edge of the mountain so he could talk. It was his nephew calling from America, my cousin Vasili Panos, an Oak Brook dentist and godfather to one of my sons.
"Vasili, he's here," George said, facing west into the sun. "We're at Agios Nikolaos. Why don't you walk outside to the balcony so you can wave to us? Vasili, can you see us from America? We're waving so you can see and come to Rizes."
Back in the village, another cousin stopped us, and we hugged and talked. The number of cousins amazed Tribune photographer Chris Walker.
A whole village of them, I said, and we went into the coffeehouse where more cousins waited, the circle of chairs getting wider.
They wanted to know about President Barack Obama, and American politics. And about their own politics too. Especially about the recent protests in Athens outside the Parliament building, which had once been the palace of the king. The people in the coffeehouse didn't feel much kinship with the rock throwers of the hard left.
"We don't have such people in this village," one old man said. "This is not the village of such people."
The others grunted in assent. More stories were told. But soon it was time to go.
I asked my Thea Tula, the only one of my father's siblings who remained in Greece, for the reason Rizes is so beautiful.
"Because your father was born here, and your grandfathers and their grandfathers and their grandfathers," she said. "That is why it is beautiful. Do you understand me?"
And like that, it was on me again, pressing my chest, making it difficult to breathe.
"Ianni, you understand?"
Yes, Thea, I understand.