—Ready for Love
At 32, though, you're still a young niblet. You've got several years before your ovaries dry up and head to a timeshare in Florida. I've had friends who've spawned well into their late 30s and early 40s, so don't close up the Bat Cave just yet. Also, stress is bad for the reproductive organs, so the less time you devote to panicking at the disco, the better.
It would have been helpful to know why you're reluctant to try online dating, but as someone who's done it like a part-time job, I think I can venture a few guesses. That said, meeting people online is no longer a vestige of the creepy weirdoes. (That would be DiaperMates.com, in case you're wondering.) Lots of people meet their significant others that way—in fact, 22 percent of couples met on the Internet, according to a study done in 2009, mentioned in this Association of Psychological Science paper). Still, the most common way to meet a mate is through family and mutual friends, so if you haven't exhausted your pals' cheese-and-gherkin parties, don't stop ‘til the getting's gouda.
I will say that if you're truly on the market, why not have as many avenues available to you as possible? Online dating gives you instantaneous access to thousands of potential partners who you never would've been able to meet otherwise. It's also a woman's game, in that men typically do most of the legwork to find and woo you. Win-win, yeah? Bribe a good friend with a bottle of wine and have him or her spend an hour helping you create a dating profile. Match.com and eHarmony are supposedly where the more "serious" daters go, i.e. those looking to put a ring on it, but if you loathe paying for things like I do, then go to OkCupid or PlentyOfFish.
Of course, the nitty gritty of all this "true love" biznass is that it involves a lot of chance, luck and dirty laundry before you find someone who's right for you. Take heart though, my friend; at least now that you're in your 30s, maybe your sex drive will spike?
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