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Advice: Where do all the hot lesbians hang out?
Anna, how would you genuinely respond to a new acquaintance who asks in conversation, "So where do all the young, hawt, hip, femme, single lesbians hang out?" Mind you, the question is asked in person (not online or via text where the anonymity warrants a blow-off or obnoxious response)? "Hooters," I want to respond (which may be true). The question irritates me. I find it rude, shallow, obnoxious and superficial, and I would find it so if it came from a man and he was asking me regarding heterosexual women. Or, am I irritated BECAUSE it sounds so much like a man asking regarding hetero women?—Char
Anna Pulley, @annapulley
October 10, 2013