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Advice: Can I lovingly choke you?
I’m relatively new to BDSM and I just started a sexual relationship with a nice vanilla-in-bed bisexual girl who knows I'm leaving Chicago soon. As we were talking about what we like in bed, she offered to sub for me, but I had no idea how to get things moving. I came very close to blurting out “I would like to choke you in a gentle and loving manner.” This can't be right. Where to start?--Choked Up
Anna Pulley, @annapulley
November 14, 2013